For most of us, the older we get the more acquaintances we acquire. However, the reverse seems true for those we would consider to be real friends. Really old people tend to have small funerals while teenagers usually have huge funerals. It becomes easier and easier to withdraw from social occasions and to sequester one’s self to a very small environment. One of the reasons is it physically hurts to get in the car and go somewhere. We would rather people come to us instead of our going to them. Those our age think the same way so neither goes to see the other.
However, the truth of Genesis 2:18 is still true no matter how old we grow. It is not good to be alone. God created us to be social. Telling others our thoughts and listening to other’s thoughts is therapeutic. Sharing stories of our blessings and aches and pains relieves stress. When we realize our problems are not unique to us we find occasions to reach out to be a balm to others who are hurting more than we are hurting.
The happiest people are those who continue to find or create ways to be of service. Participating in church, in a civic club, being a volunteer at the local library, hospital or senior center literally adds years to one’s life. The only people who should retire are those who hate their jobs or have physical or cognitive problems coping with the tasks needing attention. We need to be needed.
When I read descriptions of heaven and God’s throne in Revelation it sounds like a very busy place. God has surrounded Himself with intelligent creatures. He enjoys their company. Believe it or not He enjoys our company.
Written by Roger Bothwell on December 14, 2009
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